Gambler & His SystemBecoming a pick up artist should require for you to have the guts to make the first move. You have to get on your way and ask for her number. Don’t wait up for an opportunity. Make the opportunity for yourself.

Meeting a valuable woman is not going to happen if you don’t make it happen. You have to work for it, and bust your moves. Pick up artists don’t wait for things to happen. They make things happen for them. If you want to get laid, you need to work for it. Approach the woman you feel attracted to. You need to talk to her for you to take the next step. You need to talk to her to take her out on a date. You need to talk to her to get to know her. Knowing her would give you an idea of how to approach her. Talking to her would give you a hint of what type of person she is, and what actions you need to take to successfully take her out. Going out with an attractive woman is not as easy as reciting the alphabet. Taking one step at a time would surely lead you to your ultimate goal – to be successful in picking up the best woman in town (and getting laid with her).

If you frequent bars with lots of single men and women, you have to remember that all of you are aiming for the same thing – to have a fun filled night. So, man up! Women won’t come to bars wearing sexy and seductive clothes, on heels and nice perfume, if they don’t want to be hit on. They are there to be hit on and have some fun. So, gather up the courage and talk to her. Women in bars are expecting to be hit on, and they are used to it. If you get rejected, that’s not a reason for you to mope and ruin your night. Move along! There are plenty of beautiful fish in the sea.

Put your anxiety aside and speak up. If you’re nervous and can’t think of anything to say, giving her a compliment should give you a good head start. However, you should remember not to sound so cheesy or come out lewd in any way. You don’t want to scare her away. Giving her a compliment and walking away after would make her intrigued. She would surely come after you. She will start picking you up, instead of you picking her up.